His best friend, Ester, is determined to “cure” him of his sexuality. However, a trip to the vibrant city of San Francisco opens Matthew’s eyes to a whole new world, one where he doesn’t have to hide who he is. The film follows Matthew’s journey as he navigates the challenges of growing up in a conservative community.
As a 14-year-old, he is just beginning to understand his own identity and sexuality. Ester’s attempts to “fix” him only serve to further isolate and confuse him. When Matthew visits San Francisco, he is exposed to a diverse and accepting LGBTQ+ community.
He sees that there are others like him, and that he doesn’t have to be ashamed of who he is. The city’s vibrant culture and open-mindedness provide a stark contrast to the narrow-mindedness of his hometown. Through this experience, Matthew begins to realize that he is not the one who needs “curing.
” Instead, it is the people around him who need to open their minds and hearts to the reality of LGBTQ+ individuals. The film explores the themes of self-acceptance, the power of community, and the importance of embracing one’s true identity. Overall, “Why Does God Hate Me?” is a poignant and humorous exploration of the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ youth in conservative communities.
It offers a message of hope and empowerment, reminding us that everyone deserves to be accepted and celebrated for who they are.